Namhlanje, njengesiqhelo, sifumene iminxeba emininzi, ii-imeyile, izicelo zamaxabiso kunye nezibonelelo ezahlukeneyo. Bendizoma apha nditshintshele ku “wena” nawe. Ndiyazi ukuba akukhuthazwa, kuba abantu bagweba ngokukhawuleza iimbono zomntu, kodwa ngeli xesha andinandaba. Eli bali ndilibalisa, hayi phambi kwenkampani yonke, kodwa ngegama lam, kuba kuphela kwendlela endinokubalisa ngayo.
Iincoko malunga neefestile zihlala zifana enye kwenye
Masicace, xa ishishini sele lishishini iminyaka (ukuthengiswa kweefestile kwimeko yam), abaninzi abantu babuza imibuzo efanayo kwaye banenkxalabo efanayo malunga nemveliso, kwaye ndineempendulo ezifanayo. Kwaye oku bekuqhubeka iminyaka.
Abathengi banditsalele umnxeba, babuze imibuzo efanayo, bacele isicatshulwa, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndingomnye wabo kulwandle lweefowuni abazenzayo ngaloo mini, bekhangela ukuba ngubani onokuthi ubenzele iifestile ezilungileyo kwaye zezona ziphantsi. Kwaye oko kulungile ngokupheleleyo. Yiyo loo nto, njengomthetho, uninzi lweencoko ziqala ngethoni ebandayo kwaye zilandele ikhondo elimiselweyo. Ngokuchaneke ngakumbi, kuqinisekiswe ukuba ndiku-“autopilot” kwaye ngelixa ndidwelisa iimpawu, ndihlala ndisenza enye into.
Kodwa rhoqo kwelinye icala loqhagamshelo ngandlela thile ndiyakwazi ukuva “indoda”. Emva kweminyaka engaka ndivele ndizive ukuba umntu u-complicated, unovalo, inoba uyayiva into endimxelela yona okanye uzenza ngathi uyayiqonda, ukuba ngalamini ndingomnye wabo bafowunayo kwaye ngubani oza “kuphalaza” ibali kuye ukuze amazise imveliso yakhe, njl..
Ekugqibeleni ke, kuzo zonke ezo zinto, ndithi kuni, makavelane nomnye umntu, ngokuba nam ngokwam ndinjalo, xa kukho nto ndiyithandayo, kodwa andiyiqondi.
Umbuzo ophule i-autopilot
Kodwa namhlanje bendinombuzo ongaqhelekanga. Oko kukuthi, inenekazi elisele likhulile laseBelgrade lindifowunela lindibuza ngeefestile. Umasipala wase-Stari Grad ubonelela ngenkxaso-mali yokutshintsha ukuchwela endala, kwaye angathanda ukuyisebenzisa ukubuyisela iifestile zendlu yakhe encinci. Uchaza ukuba sele ekhulile, akakuqondi kakuhle ukuchwela, kwaye ngokuzenzekelayo ndiphakamisa ilizwi lam, ndinciphise intetho yam kwaye ndiqalise ukucacisa. Ngaxa lithile, uyandiphazamisa ngokumangalayo kwaye uthi ufuna iPVC, kuba uvile ukuba yeyona ndlela inexabiso eliphantsi. Kwaye ngaphandle koko, wayecinga ukuba zonke iinkampani zelizwe lethu ngoku zenza i-PVC kwaye zathi: “Kuphi kanye kanye ndimele ndiqhagamshelane nawe? Ewe, ndiyayinqula umthi kwaye ngoku undilimaze ngokwenene. Ndakhulela eHomolje kuloo ndalo kunye nokutsha, kwaye ngoku ndihlala kule ndlu. Kwaye wena, ngaba ngamaplanga abiza kakhulu? “ Ndiphendule: “Ziyabiza kakhulu, kodwa …” Ngaphandle kokulinda ukuba ndigqibe ukumphendula, uthi: “Bendiyazi ukuba bayabiza kakhulu. Uyazi, ipenshoni yam incinci, ndihlala ndedwa, ndinekati ezininzi kwaye ndihoyile, kwaye ndimdala.
Ndingathanda ukukubuza, ingaba kufanelekile ukuba ndifake imali kwiifestile ngoku, xa ndiza kufa?“
Ume apho alinde impendulo yam.
Xa iingcebiso zabantu zibaluleke ngaphezu kokuthengisa
Ngoku…lelo lixesha elikukhabelayo ngaphandle kolu vavanyo luzenzekelayo. Uyaqonda ukuba ngenene lo mfazi akanamntu. Uyabona ukuba ubuza umntu aqala ukuva efowunini ukuba ufuna iingcebiso zobomi bakhe. Umqala wakho uyaqina, kwaye intliziyo yakho kunye nokuphefumla kuyema okomzuzwana. Uziva ngathi kufuneka unoxanduva, kwaye uziva ngathi ngoku kufuneka uyibeke ecaleni injongo yakho yokuthengisa kwaye unike elona cebiso linenjongo entle nelikrelekrele unakho.
Imizuzwana embalwa yokuthula…
Ndinempendulo ezimbini zakho. Eyokuqala kukuba yiyo kanye le nto kufuneka uthathe into oyithanda ngokwenene kwaye uyonwabele! Kwaye okwesibini, musa ukutshintsha naziphi na iifestile! Musa ukubeka iinkuni okanye nantoni na enye. Nika iikati zakho kwihotele yekati, kwaye uhlawule uhambo oluhle kwimali yeefestile. Hamba, hamba. Zininzi iispa ezintle eSerbia. Yiya kwiHomolje yakho. Hlala nje!
Ngoku thula kwakhona. Inokuba yimizuzwana embalwa. Ndiyabuza:“Ukhona…?” Liyaphendula: “Kanti ndizakwenza ntoni ngeekati zam?” “Iikati ziya kwenza ntoni xa ungekho?” Ndiyaphendula. Kwangelo khefu kwakhona…
“Uyazi yintoni, ndiza kucinga ngesi siphakamiso sakho.” Ndamcela ukuba andixelele ukuba ugqibe ntoni kwaye ndathi ndifuna ukufowunelwa nguHomolje. Uye wancuma. Kulapho siyigqibezele khona incoko.
Ndiyigcinile inombolo yakhe kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uzakundifowunela eHomolja! ❤️❤️❤️
Eli bali lisandikhumbuza nanamhlanje ukuba incoko entle malunga neefestile kufuneka iqale ngeemfuno zokwenyani zomntu. Ukuba ucinga ngokutshintsha umsebenzi wakho weplanga, jonga onokukhetha kuzo iifestile zamaplanga okanye usithumelele umbuzo ukuxoxa ngeprojekthi kunye.